In the past, traditional male and female roles where more evident in Indonesia. Women were not seen as equals with men. Up until recently, women were oppressed and exploited (Ahmad, 1998). The economy, however, played a large role in promoting women and giving them a stronger role in society. As more factories opened, more jobs were available and more employees were necessary. This is comparable to the United States situation in WWII when women started to join the workforce. Women have made a name for themselves in Indonesia and continue to strive for equality.
Men in this society are like many cultures – the breadwinner. They are the workers. Most men do little to no chores at home though (Indonesia, 2014). The man is meant to be seen as a patriarch, while the women is seen as submissive. This attitude is a part of the larger culture of Eastern views. The United States embraces a Western view and that is why the concept is somewhat strange to us. Personally, I found this view disturbing and finding research on this subject was somewhat offensive. I came across articles titled "My Submissive Asian Wife" and such. I am by no means a feminist, but I do not believe in submission.
An interesting fact about Indonesia is their greeting protocol. With the same sex, they are supposed to shake hands or nod (Indonesia, 2014). However, with men and women, physical contact is rare. This most likely comes from the Muslim religions in the country. I found this information unique because I had never considered a different way to greet another person. The culture shaped by men and women is forever changing and Indonesia is on its way to a stronger female role.
Citations
Ahmad, A. (1998, December 29). Redefining the role of women in Indonesia. Retrieved September 29, 2014, from http://www.twn.my/title/abdul-cn.htm
Indonesia: Gender Issues. (2014, January 1). Retrieved September 29, 2014, from http://www.culturecrossing.net/basics_business_student_details.php?Id=12 &CID=97